Weekend routines
I strive on routines. I love the school year because I know when the children need to get up, go to school, when I can work on my blog and visit friends. I also do like summers and school breaks and for the long breaks I usually create some routines such as when snacks and meals are, some outings and when we go to the pool for example. That still allows for some freedom and some impulsivity too. Now surprisingly, Saturday can be my least favorite day of the week! Why is that? Here is what I came up with:
- lack of schedule
- lack of plans
To battle my dislikes of Saturdays, I am going to try to implement a few things this year so that I am not cranky.
Accept certains things:
For example, my husband usually likes to take a nap if we do not have any plans and my teen probably won’t wake up till 11. Also not every week needs to have an outing.
Plan at least one thing
- Lately my husband and I have taken a little time away from the kids (thanks to having a teen and a mother in law in the house) to either take a walk by ourselves or go to lunch.
- Plan an activity every other week: we can go hiking or biking, we can take the children to the local fun spot which has rock climbing, mini golf, or we can get together with the sis in law and kids!
Me time:
If we have no plans, the weather is uncooperative, everyone is tired, then I should plan something for me to do. It can be as simple as going to the gym, working on the blog, research some vacation plans or going for a little trip to Target (hopefully just to look, lol!)
We do have some things that we do every Saturday which is having a full breakfast as a family(minus the oldes)t and we go to church in the evening. Maybe I can start planning some more variety in our breakfasts and plan a fun stop on the way to church! Next Saturday, I plan to go glasses shopping for my oldest and making some crepes for breakfast. We do not have any plans made but I would like to create a spot in our garage for shelving for bike helmets and nerf guns. If it is nice, hopefully we will go outdoors.
What it boils down to is to find what makes you tick, what triggers discontentment and then work to alleviate those triggers. Have a positive attitude! I am sure I will be missing the Saturdays with no plans when soccer is back in session!
A bientôt!
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26 Comments
Jennifer
I want to make crepes!
Jennifer
Effortlessly Sophisticated
mimifce
So easy!
Makeup Muddle
I have never tried making crepes before! I love eating them so I really need to try making them myself xo
Makeup Muddle
mimifce
The recipes are usually so easy! Will have to share them on the blog soon.
jodie filogomo
I always like routines too, but I also want a little variety now that we are retired.
You are so good at getting outside…we are trying to put that into our days more and more.
XOXO
Jodie
mimifce
We try to get outdoors otherwise the kids get too into their electronics or just start acting up.
Ellibelle
I too love the regular schedule during the week but always enjoy when the weekend comes along and I can take a break from my weekly activities/chores. Our Saturdays always seem to have something scheduled as well for most of the year (balletmom), so that leaves only Sundays for relaxing. Weekends are too short!
I love crepes, might make myself some for lunch today 🙂
Ellibelle’s Corner
mimifce
Yum! I haven’t made any in a while so my son is happy: just don’t have any nutella so we will put fruit or jam in them.
Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom
This is really such a good idea. My kids have so many dance/karate/school things on weekends, but when we do land up with a free weekend I feel like we land up doing nothing and waist the whole weekend away. Setting aside some me time is good, too. I always feel like if I don’t get a little me time in each day, I go crazy. 🙂
Carrie
curlycraftymom.com
mimifce
I so agree! I think that is where I fail: getting that time even if 30 min to 1 hour of me time and then I am cranky about the weekend.
Cielo Fronteras
I love this and I love the me time too! So important! Thanks for sharing!
– Cielo
Mermaid in Heels
mimifce
With the kids always wanting something, it is necessary or I reach cranky time real fast!
Lindsey Puls
I need some sort of a routine as well. I especially like carving out an hour in the morning to head to the gym too. Haha, I had to laugh… do you ever successfully go to Target and JUST look? I think every time I”ve done that, I’ve walked out of Target with at least 3 things I may or may not have needed, haha!
mimifce
I depends with Target but lately I have been pretty good about it especially I have just looked at my budget and checking account lol!
Kathrine Eldridge
I am a big planner as well. These are great suggestions and I hope you enjoy your me time!
https://www.kathrineeldridge.com
mimifce
Thanks, Kathrine. We had a little fun this morning for a couple of hours with about 1 in of snow. P
Amy Johnson
I never considered myself a routine person till I got a cat, then one day I realized that the cat always knew what time of day it was by what I was doing. LOL! I looked at my daily life and I thought I could set a stop watch by my day!
mimifce
That is so funny!
Jill
I like routines and I plan out everything even on weekends. I actually need to start being more spontaneous and having more “me time”!
Jill – Doused in Pink
mimifce
It’s hard to have that balance and be content.
Mica
Sounds like you have some good things in mind to change up your Saturday! Our boy has just started school so we try not do too much on weekends and just let him chill at home after his swimming lessons. I’m sure we will get back to doing more things soon! 🙂
Hope that you are having a nice weekend! It’s a quiet one here as we have a lot more rain – but can’t complain, it’s nice to have cooler weather and we are not at risk for flooding 🙂
mimifce
With soccer starting soon, I will probably miss the weekends with nothing going on. But I do like routines and plans.
Grace
I also love having a routine! I usually feel pretty sluggish and unproductive on the weekends, so I like the tips you have here. Hope your Saturday was a good one yesterday!
Miles of smiles,
Grace
gracefulrags.com
mimifce
That is me on weekends if I just go with the flow and my mood reflects it.
Anna
I prefer routine over “just go with the flow” attitude. I like to make plans that way I have plenty of time to think things though and get ready
mimifce
Yes. It helps me feel much better if I have at least a general plan and idea!